This Book Outlines Some Of The Ways An Adult May Be Affected By Abuse Or Neglect As A Child. It Also Helps The Adult Recognize The Change That Can Be Accomplished In Breaking Patterns And Habits Which Resulted From The Impact Of Abuse. Is This Book For Me? -- Coming To Terms With The Abuse: Denial; Definitions Of Abuse; Minimizing; Rationalizing; Selective Memory; -- Ok, I Believe It, Now What?: Anger; Fear; Shame; Relief; -- Aftereffects Of Abuse: Difficulties With Trust; Difficulties With Self-protection; Difficulties With Self-esteem; Difficulties With Achievement; Difficulties With Fitting In; Difficulties With Intimacy; Relationships; -- Patterns Of Relating To The World: Caretaker-rescuer; Hider; Take Me, I'm Yours; I'm Tough, Nothing Hurts Me; Lost Souls; Walking Time Bombs; The Only Thing That Helps Is Dying; My Head Aches, Hug Me; If It Hurts, I Know I'm Here; -- Taking Hold Of Your Past: Once A Victim, Always A Victim?; Once A Victim, Now An Abuser?; Nothing Matters Anymore- Why Try?; Becoming Whole: No More Splitting; Constructive Anger Expression; Respond, Don't Simply React; Create Opportunities; Get Free Of Familiar Traps; Become Visible; Know Your Own Power; Broaden Your Possibilities; -- Say Goodbye To The Parents You Never Had: Say Hello To The Parents You Can Be If You Chose; Rescuing Yourself: No More Pipe Dreams; -- Addendum: The Non-abused Sibling; Partners Of Adults Abused As Children. Eliana M. Gil ; Illustrations, Sally Haskell. Bibliography: P. 84.

Eliana M. Gil; illustrations, Sally Haskell

Gil, Eliana

1st ed., San Francisco, Calif, California, 1983

2nd ed, San Francisco, Calif, 1984, ©1983

United States, United States of America

Walnut Creek, Unknown, 1987

Walnut Creek, Calif, 1980

Includes bibliographical references.

subject: Adult child abuse victims-Rehabilitation

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Bookmarks:
1. (p1) INTRODUCTION
2. (p2) Chapter I IS THIS BOOK FOR ME?
3. (p3) Chapter II COMING TO TERMS WITH THE ABUSE
3.1. (p4) Denial
3.2. (p5) Definitions of Abuse
3.3. (p6) Minimizing
3.4. (p7) Rationalizing
3.5. (p8) Selective Memory
4. (p9) Chapter III OK, I BELIEVE IT, NOW WHAT?
4.1. (p10) Anger
4.2. (p11) Fear
4.3. (p12) Shame
4.4. (p13) Relief
5. (p14) Chapter IV AFTEREFFECTS OF ABUSE
5.1. (p15) Difficulties with Trust
5.2. (p16) Difficulties with Self-Protection
5.3. (p17) Difficulties with Self-Esteem
5.3.1. (p18) I am bad
5.3.2. (p19) I am unworthy/unloveable
5.4. (p20) Difficulties with Achievement
5.5. (p21) Difficulties with Fitting In
5.6. (p22) Difficulties with Intimacy/ Relationships
6. (p23) Chapter V PATTERNS OF RELATING TO THE WORLD
6.1. (p24) Caretaker/Rescuer
6.2. (p25) Hider
6.3. (p26) Take Me, I'm Yours
6.4. (p27) I'm Tough, Nothing Hurts Me
6.5. (p28) Lost Souls
6.6. (p29) Walking Time-Bombs
6.7. (p30) The Only Thing That Helps Is Dying
6.8. (p31) My Head Aches, Hug Me
6.9. (p32) If It Hurts, I Know I'm Here
7. (p33) Chapter VI TAKING HOLD OF YOUR PAST
7.1. (p34) Once a Victim, Always a Victim?
7.2. (p35) Once a Victim, Now an Abuser?
7.3. (p36) Nothing Matters Anymore-Why Try?
7.4. (p37) Becoming Whole: No More Splitting
7.5. (p38) Constructive Anger Expression
7.6. (p39) Respond, Don't Simply React
7.7. (p40) Create Opportunities
7.8. (p41) Get Free of Familiar Traps
7.9. (p42) Become Visible
7.10. (p43) Know Your Own Power
7.11. (p44) Broaden Your Possibilities
8. (p45) Chapter VII SAY GOODBYE TO THE PARENTS YOU NEVER HAD
8.1. (p46) Say Hello to the Parents You Can Be If You Choose
8.2. (p47) Rescuing Yourself: No More Pipe Dreams
9. (p48) ADDENDUM
9.1. (p49) The Non-Abused Sibling
9.2. (p50) Partners of Adults Abused as Children
10. (p51) EPILOGUE
11. (p52) RESOURCES
12. (p53) SUGGESTED READINGS

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